Inappropriate sentences
Written by Bushra Jabeen Journalist
Analyst columnist
Some of the phrases that the parents say several times a day and the children are not giving any special response. One of the reasons is that the parents have to forbid the children by repeating a few phrases. Children become so accustomed to hearing such phrases that sometimes children do not care. Our children are often a mirror to us. Over time, we realize that if we express ourselves in a simple and gentle tone, children Respond well.
Sometimes it seems difficult to change, say, do this style if you consider the harsh and sour accents. But overcoming this difficulty makes life easier.
Therefore, there is a need to use words in a better way to make life easier and happier. If these sentences are changed positively, not only will these sentences need to be repeated, but neither will the children. It will be realized that their parents always say the same thing.
Always talk to children in a gentle tone. Even in the way of scolding, be calm and gentle. Because it is very important for any human being to progress towards goodness beyond perfection.
First of all, make the children feel that no one is harmed by their soft talk. Before going anywhere, the children are told to say the word "with distinction”. Denying that there is no such thing as distinction in our children. This can also be explained to the children in such a way that wherever you go, make sure that no one is harmed because of you. When going to the park, do not harm people as well as animals.
“Please speak calmly”
In order to do this, parents should talk to their children in a gentle tone of voice, while some parents use all their power to make their voices heard.
Many children naturally speak loudly. Talk to such children in a whisper. Gradually they will also get used to it. Light speech and eye gestures can make children accustomed to speaking softly. Learn to do it yourself ”is a better sentence than saying that it does not hurt the child’s ego but makes him realize how he can help his parents. In this way children will realize that they Now they have grown up and can help their parents by doing small things. Children will have a positive feeling.
The word "shame” has a negative effect on the child and he becomes accustomed to the word after hearing it over and over again. If the child makes a mistake, explain to him that he did it wrong. It is better to say your words in a better way. That is, if the child makes a mistake, explain to him that the next time you repeat the mistake, you will get into trouble again and also what you learned from that mistake. The next time the child is focused, the focus will be on the stimulus and he will not make the same mistake again.
Every child wants to buy the best toy and the parents themselves have the greatest desire to get what comes out of the child’s mouth, but sometimes the economic situation where the person is forced to speak harsh words. But it has a bad effect on the psyche of children. Therefore, it is better to ask the children to write down the things that are not possible on their upcoming birthday list. It is also very important to explain that one should not be stubborn to look at other people’s things. Children are very intelligent. If their understanding is understood, they act on it.
It is better to say, "Respect yourself and others” in such a way that "Be good.” When children try to be good, they will automatically respect others.
Don’t stop children all the time, but also make sure that someone else forbids the child. It is the responsibility of the parents to train the children in such a way that no one can stop them.
Help children to recognize their feelings. By doing so, they will see a positive trend in children’s attitudes, which will include respect and love.
